The Gottman Method is a research based and clinically proven method of couples therapy. I draw many techniques from this therapy to help couples understand each other’s world better, share fondness and admiration for each other, manage conflict, and create shared life meaning and purpose. I also use Emotionally Focused Therapy and Attachment Theory.

With individuals, I use a combination of Internal Family Systems (IFS), Attachment Theory, and Person Centered Therapies.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach to psychotherapy that identifies and addresses multiple sub-personalities or families within each person’s mental system. These sub-personalities consist of wounded parts and painful emotions such as anger and shame, and parts that try to control and protect the person from the pain of the wounded parts. The sub-personalities are often in conflict with each other and with one’s core Self, a concept that describes the confident, compassionate, whole person that is at the core of every individual. IFS focuses on healing the wounded parts and restoring mental balance and harmony by changing the dynamics that create discord among the sub-personalities and the Self.

Attachment styles refer to the patterns of interpersonal relationships we form in early childhood with our primary caregivers, which can influence how we relate to others throughout our lives. However, it's important to note that attachment styles are not set in stone, can overlap, and can change over time.

Person-centered therapy, also known as Rogerian therapy or client-based therapy, employs a non-authoritative approach that allows clients to take more of a lead in sessions such that, in the process, they discover their own solutions. The approach originated in the work of American psychologist Carl Rogers, who believed that every person is unique and, therefore, everyone’s view of his or her own world, and their ability to manage it, should be trusted.

During person-centered therapy, a therapist acts as a compassionate facilitator, listening without judgment and acknowledging the client’s experience without shifting the conversation in another direction. The therapist is there to encourage and support the client without interrupting or interfering with their process of self-discovery, as they uncover what hurts and what is needed to repair it.